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 Wow. What a whirlwind.  All that testing and doctor appointments lead to something totally unexpected... vascular dementia. But let me be candid. My family didn't believe me. My uncle, my mom's brother thought I was crazy. My brother didn't believe me either.  Let me start with my mom's brother. My uncle and I banged heads way back when...my great aunt had open heart surgery at 86. My mom was working at the time and my aunt needed some rehab. It would be irresponsible to send her home with no one there. She needed to get her heart stronger and she needed help getting around. My uncle called me looking for our Aunt and my mom one day. The words barely left my lips, "Aunt Adele is at a nursing home for rehab," and he verbally went off on me. I will never forget how he talked to me. The golden boy of the family. I thought less of him. Now there is nothing left. He is an absolute ignorant asshole. His wife died several years ago. My mom has always tried to be the